A Little Bit About Me

See I've definitely shrunk!!
See I’ve definitely shrunk!!

…some people would say I’m eccentric… you can judge for yourselves

I turned 50 in November 2017.  I don’t know how the hell that happened!  When I look in the mirror I’m always surprised it’s not the 18 year old me looking back…. time just rages on.

cropped-midsummer-party-2011-22.jpgMy life was very ordinary, until I realised it wasn’t.  Until I realised no-one is ordinary, no-ones life is ordinary and we can all and do all experience the extraordinary in our everyday lives.  We simply don’t always notice.20161030_133746Way back in 2005 we upped stix and moved our lives to the beautiful town (village)  of Llanwrtyd Wells in Mid Wales.  No planning, just a spontaneous move bourne out of desperation; We run a B&B from it (Cerdyn Villa, LD5 4RS, come and visit us 🙂 ). We could not be happier.cropped-20170620_174717.jpgLife is far from ordinary and far from extraordinary.  My blog finds the extraordinary within the ordinary.  It is a celebration of all things everyday that make each of us unique and ordinarily extraordinary human beings. …..

Bog Frog with Stag party thisweekend - i really didn't think I'd be the only one wearing fancy dress (or clothes for that matter!)
Me, The Bog Frog with Stag party
My alter-ego “Lady lily of the Pink”

We’re in Wales because Hubby and I quit our middle management office jobs after a two-day holiday to a place chosen by sticking a pin in a map.  We visited Llanwrtyd Wells, Mid Wales and returned home to sell our house, hand in our notices and pull our 7yr old son out of school. We moved ourselves here lock stock and car transporter within 3 months of the initial visit.  Without a care in the world,much of a plan or a backward glance.

brecon womens art 2017 - craig
reflexology panel
Tangerine Dream - Acrylic on Canvas
Tangerine Dream – Acrylic on Canvas

I always felt I had “an artist in me” so started community art and stained glass classes and now that’s what I do.  These days I also use our home as a studio for my art and glass business (Berni Benton Glass & Art)

As well as the B&B and the arty stuff, I do gardening work, the odd bit of bar work and the odd bit of waitressing and anything else that might present itself.  For a while I ran a craft shop called In the Pink.

I L O V E people who ‘don’t fit into a box’ , eccentrics, rebels, free-thinkers.  Anyone who’s a bit ‘alternative’.


Which is probably why I joined the Monster Raving Loony Party as my alter ego, Lady Lily the Pink, soon after moving here and discovering my home is in the town where Screaming Lord Sutch played his last ever gig and also the place where the party has its Brecknockshire H/Q.  One day I shall stand for parliament …but that’s a future story.

12511276_1055728987811111_1582123472_oI own a 1968 Hillman Husky, it’s now magnificently sprayed in a stunning magenta pink, and called Ffloyd.  Ffloyd after the band and the double “eff” in honour of my Welsh home.  Sometimes she/he (my car is gender fluid) and Ido charitable things together, like the annual  Pink Car Rally.  Predominantly, I enjoy the fact that driving around in Ffloyd brings a smile to pretty much everyone’s face and leads me into random conversations with complete strangers.

raising awareness of the 2 year anniversary of the temporary lights
raising awareness of the 2 year anniversary of the temporary lights

I consider myself a bit of an activist, possibly an antagonist.  I like to stand up and be counted when I feel people are wronged.  I like to ‘advocate’ for those who feel they don’t have a voice.  As such I often find myself in ‘hot water’ or in the local press for making a noise about local issues when, perhaps, the public servants would prefer everyone to keep quiet!.  Anyway, I’m sure my blogs will cover some of these antics…

winner!I do, of course, happen to live in the most eccentric town in the UK; also the smallest.  A happy coincidence (some would say ‘fated’).  Llanwrtyd Wells invented Bog Snorkelling; Man v Horse Marathon; Mountain Bike Chariot Racing; to name but a few.  It also created the World Alternative Games… gathering eccentric pastimes from around the world together bi-annually to the benefit of the community, the amusement of the world and the interest of the press.  I take my hat of to the great characters and the wonderful personalities you will no doubt read about herecropped-20160728_121026_richtonehdr1.jpgI’m planning to “ramble on”, with rose-tinted ramblings on anything that takes my fancy.  Mostly relating to pinkness, looniness, eccentric activities and adventures with Ffloyd.   But being driven to advocate for those with quieter voices you may find the odd ‘rant’ amongst the rosy glow.  We all have extraordinary in our ordinary, I hope I can help you find yours.

…some people would say I’m eccentric… I think of myself as ordinarily extraordinary, just like you xx

Really really red
Really really red

25 thoughts on “A Little Bit About Me

  1. Berni, first of all, thank you finding me through #BlogCrush! Second of all, where have you been all my life?! Wanna take over the world with me, you fabulous, amazing, extraordinarily ordinary woman? You have quite literally written my own words throughout this post…and to keep it simple, I adore you after reading only your “About Me” page. I can’t wait to read more. You now have a new faithful follower in me!


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    1. Shelbee!! That is the loveliest comment ever. I love your energy. I wanted to be equally gushy when I discovered you but my temporary insanity and self doubt held me back. Had been worried I might freak you out! I love gushy heartfelt and like minded. So fantastic to meet you. Can’t wait to have more conversations xxx


  2. Hi Lady Lily, just wanted to pop by and say hi and… And… Gulp…. A Hillman Huskey. My parents first car in 1960. I was four and sat in the back while dad swore and mum worked the crank shaft to start it on a Cold morning because he couldn’t and the dog slobbered down my neck and… I have to follow for that and having voted Looney in 1987 when despairing of everyone else. What other connections will we find. PS you are not middle aged btw. I’m middle aged and only just at 59 – I have plans to embarrass my children for decades yet. You are in your middle youth. Just saying….


    1. lovely to chat – you know, pretty much everyone who sees me in Ffloyd talks to me, which is one of the reasons i love having him/her. Most people seem at some point to have owned or been in an Imp… very few a Husky – they’re pretty rare …only about 60 left. That chunk of life …middle youth (i like that) through middle age is pretty exciting i’d say… more confidence , more time, less self consdciousness …and kids , even grandkids to embarrass … i do it with flare… i have to say i’m quite an exceptional mother if success is based on the embarrassment factor.

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      1. Brilliant – we can share tips. My daughter knows the more expensive her wedding plans (if she ever decides to wed) the greater the embarrassment that will ensure – currently the threat is the 50 plus (in age) naked glee club (with me in the lead) singing Love is all around us as she walks down the aisle..


        1. PWAHAHA! That I would love to be a fly on the wall for… although with that hanging over her i suspect she is unlikely to marry.
          Offv to the Senedd in Cardiff on Saturday with a bus full of Loons to film more for our Party Political Broadcast….. there’s a blog update there ….watch this space

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        2. Can’t wait. Good to know the loons are still with us but then again if Boris replaces Cameron and Corbyn remains in place for 2020 I think one has to admit satire is finally dead.


  3. Loved reading your blog, We have a pink day in Witney on the 4th of October, all the shops go pink and lots of the streets are decorated with pink ballooons, we also have a pink car parade, but nowhere near as many cars as you had in yours. If by any chance you have friends from your parade who live near by could you ask them if they’d like to get involved in our parade, it’s only a couple of hours and is for Against Breast cancer. cheers Anya witneyinthepink@gmail.com


  4. Hi, I looked at your Rapido some time ago, nice. Anyway recently got the smaller version and looking to find the long sofa covers in the fabric you have/had and as I read you were recovering them I wondered if you still had the original covers? I got the van off an Imp Club member actually, how can I email/contact you to follow this up?


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